He has asked me 10 times this past week but i havent answered him yet with a yes or no. I do love and care 4 him but i just dont know if im ready 4 that leap yet

Ask him to make it a good long engagement lol idk what else to say

@diamondcc:if you have doubts wait for a bit see if things change

Wait, if he loves you he wont mind waiting until you are sure

@Smh247: while that is true we dont know the dynamics of the relationship he (i would hope) is sure since hes asking and i assume there is a risk of hurting him by saying no so to say we can advise you would be foolhardy but if he truly loves you, you know him better than any of us possibly can you need to sit down with him and tactfully explain your fears and doubts so he understands you and how you feel and just put the question on the back burner so to speak

@Andres: nice to see you taking more of an interest in the forums as well as your clientele than usual.

If he is just asking u over and over again and u haven't answered then I'm taking this as u two r just saying words and not really wanting to be serious about being married. Especially if he hasn't given u a ring. Or has he?

@diamondcc: Hey girl. Sorry I was in hospital last time u text and I wasn't able to reply. I think u know what to do since u have to ask this question. Its normal to have feelings for someone, but not be ready for marriage. Maybe he is asking cuz he to sees trouble and is afraid of losing you. Don't get married to satisfy someone else. Talk to him and wait a while.

Thanks 4 all of ur advice. No im not just saying words. I just want 2 b sure that i wont get hurt again. Yes i have a ring. He does know my fears.ive been very open and honest with him.thanks again 4 the advice. Greatly appreciate it

@diamondcc: not a good sign if he wants u 2 delete nice people on here. Been there. Next step could be delete ur friends u have offline...Then ur family. You are young so take your time.