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Should i or shouldnt i (by diamondcc)

 diamondcc (6)   (49 / F-M / Georgia)
7-Dec-13 1:39 pm
I just need sum non bias advice or opinions bout gettin married 2 the guy im with even tho i have doubts that he is being true 2 me. What do i do.

 

 

 
 
 Andres (105)     (Admin)
7-Dec-13 1:43 pm
I just need sum non bias advice or opinions bout gettin married 2 the guy im with even tho i have doubts that he is being true 2 me. What do i do.
If your doubts are strong enough for you to be posting this question in a public forum, then I would recommend waiting until you no longer have doubts before committing yourself to this person forever.

 

 

 
 
 tat2d1976 (12)    (48 / M-F / North Carolina)
7-Dec-13 1:45 pm
Doubt breeds jealousy and jealousy kills relationships. If you doubt his faithfulness then maybe you should step back and see what happens.

 

 

 
 
 diamondcc (6)   (49 / F-M / Georgia)
7-Dec-13 1:46 pm
Thanks. Its just i dont want 2 make another mistake.

 

 

 
 
 diamondcc (6)   (49 / F-M / Georgia)
7-Dec-13 1:53 pm
My guy is very jealous but im not. Its just i have caught him in a few little lies. He swears he loves me but its so hard 4 me 2 trust him completely.he works hard and is good 2 me 4 the most part most of the time.

 

 

 
 
 TenFour 
7-Dec-13 1:54 pm
@diamondcc: If you have doubts of him being unfaithful then there's must have been clues for you to think he is or was being unfaithful. At any rate, people who have doubts of their lover being faithful then they shouldn't get married cause if it turns out one partner is cheating they will continue to do so after they're married which will cause more drama & pain during divorce court than to just split up before they are married.

 

 

 
 
 itshumpdayyyyeah (1)   (62 / M-F / Wisconsin)
7-Dec-13 1:56 pm
People jump into marrage just to be married or they got themselves preggo and they are doing "right thing" and its no wonder the divorce rate is where it is. im not saying these apply to you but dont do anything so life changing if your not sure of it

 

 

 
 
 diamondcc (6)   (49 / F-M / Georgia)
7-Dec-13 2:03 pm
Ive been married b 4. Im not pregnant or n e thing like that. He is a great guy and im just not sure if he is the 1 that im suppose 2 b with 4ever. I just dont want 2 get hurt again. We live 2gether.btw we didnt meet on here and he doesnt like that i am still on here but my profile says i just want friends.

 

 

 
 
 itshumpdayyyyeah (1)   (62 / M-F / Wisconsin)
7-Dec-13 2:08 pm
Well how close is the proposed wedding now dcc

 

 

 
 
 diamondcc (6)   (49 / F-M / Georgia)
7-Dec-13 2:13 pm
Please share ur advice with me any 1 who wants 2.i appreciate ur opinions. They hopefully will help me 2 decide what i need 2 do.i have 2 do sum laundry and stuff but i will check in later 2 see what advice i get. Thanks again 2 all who advise me.have a super great day.

 

 

 
 
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