I know you think its a compliment and my heart will melt and my draws will drop, but random messages telling me how beautiful you think i am but come on purrrlease try being original, interesting or even witty. I may sound like I'm being harsh but sweet sweet words do not win me over. I appreciate compliments of someone who has actually took the time to have a conversation with me and get to know me a bit first. People may think I'm being out of order a bit here because its not like someone is being horrible to me but i just don't like false statements by people who think its what i want to hear. I don't. I'd rather someone strike up a conversation that will take us somewhere. Yes i have too much too say for myself but I'm friendly really, honest :) :) :) :)

Thought only guys said "Just the tip"....ohhhhh u were offering advice! My bad hehehe

@VampDoll: i always like reading your rants or is that too much of a compliment? lol ram

We i think get those messages. I just say thank and looks are not everything that makes me,me. Then i ignore. Easier that way.

My opinion is that a message like that, allthough nice, doesnt require a very complex thought process! As opposed to something like asking you a question about something stated on your profile. If your going to take the time to message someone, at least put a little effort and creative thinking into it!

I do like a rant but I'm light hearted about things. I'd never be rude to anyone but I've said thanks to one person and the next day he messages me again "you really are beautiful" and i went you said that yesterday. realistically I'm not a minger but I'm certainly not beautiful and it makes me cringe to be told it by someone who doesn't know any thing about me. But from now on after i politely say thanks, but if it stays on that same road, well sorry but you'll be ignored you bunch of beautiful people :)

Lol @ Ram and James. You two are beautiful beyond belief :)

Haha. I feel ya girl. I think the one's where they profess their undying love for me as their first message gets me a little more. Im just like, u looked at my profile and could tell you wanted to spend the rest of your life with me? Thats intense. Can we at least text first? Haha Lol

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