Idk what I was thinking that a dating site would be any different then the real world. Cause its by far not. You can't find anyone who wants to have a decent conversation. Then once you think you have they totally flip stop talking to you for no apparent reason or just can't hold a convo its ridiculous. If i wanted to be sh**Ted on I can do that off a website I don't need a website to get lead on and what not. On happy I still try outside of here its just I have limited time to go out and find people I thought it was a good ideal to have other options to find someone but guess I was wrong lmfao

I respectfully disagree because honestly I found people here who can hold a decent conversations . People whom I believe upto now are real people and sometimes what's frustrating is that , emotions are lacking in an online Communication but nevertheless I still enjoy the convo. I think you need to display more patience and don't expect too much when to talking to someone , just enjoy the convo and let time decides what would happen. Sometimes when connections are lacking between 2 individuals too boredom strikes .....

I've been speaking to a few people and having really decent conversations. the only people i don't reply to are the ones that message me derogatory comments because that's not why I joined this site. I just want to meet some funny, upbeat and positive people who have their own views and opinions and you are not full on with me. already had people declaring their love to me and that's a no no. but I'm optimist I'll meet someone great :)

I have "met" some really cool people here quite capable of holding a conversation for hours so i don't understand what your issue is. But perhaps you should pat them on the back rather than complain because the way you spoke it seems as if they did exactly what you expected them to and as far as being "led on" i haven't experienced that either but then again i don't put no expectations on people in the "real world" either when getting to know them and by the way, these are real people (at least most of them) so i thought this was just another social outlet in the real world. Don't give up just let your foot come off the accelerator just a tad and learn to enjoy the drive instead of being so caught up in the destination.

Yeah I get that now I was just having a moment I guess sorry

@daddylongstride: no worries we all have our moments. There just ain't no escaping the human condition

I agree with samstone and vampdoll. A little time and patience is just what is needed while searching. Dont expect to much from people as you talk to them. I was talking to a guy for a couple of months and he did the same thing. So i think it happens to us all at one time or another. That just means they arent the person for you. Just dont give up and keep trying. Good luck.

Thanks your all right in into a much better mood tonight :) in not going to let little thing tick me off I'm just going to enjoy the drive like samstone said :P

The drive explains it all...its funny tho..thanks u all for helpin him out....coz it helped me tooo