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Ex's (by ilikefun69)

 ilikefun69 
6-Aug-13 4:43 pm
Can a man and a woman still be friends aftert divorce what u think

 

 

 
 
 sweetmel 
6-Aug-13 4:44 pm
Yup I think so, if they have kids

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
6-Aug-13 4:54 pm
Yes...I'm friends with my ex husband. We have a child together so communication is a must....although Im not in love with him, I'll always have love for him. That goes for both my babies daddies. Its a decision you make....not to be personal and let your feelings control the outcome. Once you let go of the pain....then you can be friends. In some cases not all....depending on the marriage and situation

 

 

 
 
 ilikefun69 
6-Aug-13 5:16 pm
@sweetmel: yeah but that the wrong reason to be friends its not fair to ur kids and what if u they dont have kids then what

 

 

 
 
 Aphasia 
6-Aug-13 5:19 pm
I aint never married. . But Im still good friends with both my ex. Fiance's. . It took a lil while but we are far better as friends than we were as a relationship

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
6-Aug-13 5:22 pm
If u have kids, NOT being friendly is what's not good for the kids.

 

 

 
 
 ilikefun69 
6-Aug-13 5:29 pm
@Briteeyes: i have to disagree with u cos kids they understand more than U think

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
6-Aug-13 5:34 pm
@ilikefun69: Yes exactly so what is it teaching them when mama and daddy can't get along for their sake? Being an adult means to learn how to be civil when you need to...infront of your children is the most important time to be civil. You are their role model....it adds stress in their life to see their parents arguing. You don't have to have dinner and movie together...but being civil to one another is a must for any healthy relationship with the children

 

 

 
 
 Reinmaker56 (8)   (66 / M-F / Texas)
6-Aug-13 5:39 pm
@Briteeyes: i agree

 

 

 
 
 ilikefun69 
6-Aug-13 5:49 pm
@Briteeyes:If u fight all the time its best not to being around ur ex i mean u can still be with ur kid and do things u dont have to have ur ex with u

 

 

 
 
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