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 smgangel 
27-Jul-13 3:37 pm
Im pretty sure i set myself up for this one but here it goes...

Ive been talking to this guy close to a month, now, and things have been great! He's about six hours away from me, haven't met yet and we're taking things slow...so to say.
But here's the problem. I expressed that talking sex was not a taboo with me and he should feel free to ask what he wants to know. Now it seems thats all he wants to to talk about. Today we were discussing what it was like where we lived and pictures we have...he said one of the nicest things to me and then came at me with "can i ask you a question?" Of course im still stary eyed with butterflies in my stomach from what he had just previously said, and was anxious to hear his question. Low and behold! He asks me another sex question. We werent even maybe 10 minutes into this conversation :-(

I know i said it was okay, and i have kind of hinted that it bothers me but i just dont know how to handle this. Any advice would greatly be appreciated

 

 



Last edited by smgangel; 27-Jul-13 3:39 pm.
 
 
 WalkSoftly1 
27-Jul-13 3:40 pm
You cracked the door open and he kicked it in lol

 

 

 
 
 smgangel 
27-Jul-13 3:40 pm
You cracked the door open and he kicked it in lol
Yea...seriously

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
27-Jul-13 3:41 pm
Just tell him u don't mind talking about sex but not 24/7...there's a time for everything. If all u talk about is sex, you will stop learning about one another and when u meet it will be based on an expectation of sex. Set boundaries

 

 

 
 
 WalkSoftly1 
27-Jul-13 3:42 pm
Seriously, he probably exposed his real self...just tell him your concerns and see if things change.

 

 

 
 
 Jjd614 
27-Jul-13 3:47 pm
Well it seems to me that you opened up that door and he wants it to stay open but hes letting you see what he is really about so maybe its a good thing to see before your in too deep

 

 

 
 
 lace38 
27-Jul-13 4:06 pm
I agree with everyone that just posted...let him know how you feel about it....being honest with each other is a must and if he doesn't stop or understand then you will see what kind of guy he is

 

 

 
 
 TheCelt (4)   (44 / M-F / Ireland)
27-Jul-13 5:26 pm
He's probably just a bit confused and is reading the signals wrong and thinks that you really do want to talk about sex but are just waiting on him to make the first moves this time since you are the one who brought the subject up in the first place . Whatever the case may be if he reads the forums he's going to know how you feel soon enough so best of luck with that :p

 

 

 
 
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