My husband got me pregnant said that he was so excited n then just up n left cuz he wanted to be wit someone else in which she was supposed to be me friend I'm at a high risk pregnancy but he says that he is gonna get custody cuz he will be a better parent then me but yet he can't n won't step up n be a man n take care of our child while I'm still pregnant

@mary22: A man who can't take of the woman when she is pregnant, can't be a good father. A man that left this woman during pregnancy for another woman will always cheat on his wife. That man is not worthy to be called a husband.

@mary22: atleast urs left. Mine wouldnt he just kept cheating and wouldnt get out. men have what i call pre daddy jitters sometimes it takes that special day when ur baby is in this world that they straighten up...or not...im just going on my experince take it easy and rest he is not worth getting upset about and u cant be stressing right now

@autumnq20: Well now he wants to leave the country wit my son after he is born

My husband did this to me twice. He got me pregnant then left. Now he thinks that he has right to the kids, um no. And if he is saying that and you think he truely means it, make it so he cant get in the room when you deliver and honestly you might need a protective order for the baby. That way if he tries to take him, hes f*****. Good luck!

@mary22: he cant do that unless he proves to the courts that u are an unfit mother. My advice to u hun is once that baby is born go file for sole custody. Now listen closely if he takes that baby anywhere outta state without ur permission he will go to jail for kidnapping BUT thats only if there is a custody arrangement

File for sole custudy after the babys born and also if he gets any visitation make sure you tell them that he might leave the country and make darn sure if he gets visitation you make it a supervised visitation.

@Uc4living: that can only be answered by you. We are the architect of our life.

My ex did the exact same ting,he had a nxt gyal at the same tym. kno he says hes betta then me... What i did was move 100 miles away frm him ,he dnt kno were i live all he has is my mobile number,i wudnt let him on my daughters birth cetfct,so he has no rights at all to my baby. And he says hes betta then me! Im a winner hes a loser i have a gawjus daughter wich i c every sec of every day,whats he got? Him and hes bleached out gyal.

@mary22: im sorry to read that, no one deserves that kind of treatment