Lying and secrets to me r almost like cheating and it depends on the situation ..........

I beleive what sissy wrote is correct 100%. If your dictatoring your relationship by not allowing her to have friends because your jelous is one thing. But if shes cheating and you have caught her at it then shes not the girl for you. Because you have a right to male or female friends as she has the same right. I have a feeling there is more to this story than you are putting down here.

Why don't you sit and talk to her about what's bothering you. It is very unhealthy in a relationship when trust is in question.

@ heikz, what have you done?! :D, i'll go and see it :)

@brats52005: there is more. The only reason it was brought up was because i was hearing rumours about them coming from where she works and i know the guy and he is a sleeze bag with no morals

@Ram318: SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Lmao i swear i Mutterficken didnt !!!! ;p-

Wow i am sorry to here that butt she is right u need to sat down and talk to her

The relationship is over. She ended it. Been together 11 yrs married 7 and she ended it 2 mnths ago

Then if its ended its time to start over and move on and forward and make some friends here. Looking back at the past only keeps the pain going on. The what could i have or should have done different doesnt help. I realize its a fresh hurt but time will heal it .

Wow i am soo sorry that she did that to u

@ramrod029: Oh wow...iam sorry to hear that but if she lied and had secrets from u it would have happened sooner or later....something wasnt right in my eyes!!!!