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Problems with my feelings (by heartlezzz)
Would you go out with a girl who you really liked but found out she flirted with other guys?
(40 / F-F / Texas)Well u would have to trust hurt and no that she just want u that is just me
Flirting doesnt hurt anyone its harmless and fun. It is a trust issue. Either you do or you dont. I used to flirt extra hard at my job to get tips. But im off limits after my job and still flirt. It makes people feel good. Its your choice and deciscion.
@TonyStark: awww come on Tony! Lil flirting is okay....just dont cross the crass/crude/too personal line.
Look I'll be honest with ya...it boils down to trust and honesty on BOTH sides...ive been in situations where like brat said sbe basically had to flirt (bartenders/cocktail waitresses etc) or even just the fun flirty personality that some women have...i personally like women with that personality and so since thats part of what attracts me to her why would i want it to change....so the question is do i trust her to have fun but be faithful to me??? And have i been honest with her about where i think the lines should be...can we determine those boundries together...but if i think she's just with me till she finds another or I'm just on the sideline indefinitely then maybe i need to consider it more
@kowboy2477: wow...well thought out, nice to hear from the male, point of view....thanx
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