@Rainbowbutterfly: no its just that ive been in my step daughters life for the past 2 yrs and my sons only 6 months to me she is my first child but i love them both the same

@Kottonmouth21: I see, that explain why then. Anyways...it's nice to know that a father shows mutual love with children either step or not, after all, them children are subject for love and protection.

@Rainbowbutterfly: i have dis-owned sum of my close relatives for treating my daughter like she wasnt family... My lil girl is my best friend she is stuck to my hip all day... So for all u single moms out there they r guys that would treat ur kids as their own so dont think of every man as sum dead beat

@Kottonmouth21: oh that sad! Mind if i ask where's your daughter's mother?

@Rainbowbutterfly: we split up a little over 2 months ago... We was together just for the kids but we could barely stand each other so we argued and fought alot (never physically) so we finally decided our kids didnt need to c that anymore so we had a mutual break up

It sounds to me that you might just be attacted to the wrong type of man try being more open to different types i know women who are attracted to the bad boy type and btch n complain when they treat em like crap ...well duh

Well a guy is quite different 4rm other we have guys like father they do care 4 kids some guy u hve met are just guys,not all guys are father so ride on.

When I got married I was 25 the woman I married had a 2 & a half year old son. When he was 4 my daughter was born. Even though I am no longer with the woman I still think of the boy as my son. He is now 28 and my daughter is 24. He is as much my son as she is my daughter I love them both equally. I even have him on my facebook so we can stay in contact.

@Rainbowbutterfly: what is this?

Is this like a chat room?