Ive tried being myself.honest and openminded.tried to make ppl happy.but after a long run of bad relationships i just want to settle down.and every time i meet a guy he says he likes me alot and is interested in me but i always feel like im getting nowhere fast.i dont harass no one.i say hey daily then with no reply back i just give up.i dont know whats so wrong with me that i cant even find one good guy to be mine...without tha b.s and games.

Dont give up but take a break , pause and smell the roses . Learn to feels complete without a gentleman at your side. Enjoy the advantages of being single. Love comes when you least expect it & everything happens for a reason. :D

I agree with rainbowbutterfly and from what i learned is not to force love because its not true if you have to force it and besides trying to find it let it find you..and everyone wonts to be loved so your frustration is understood just take deep breath remind yourself who you are and what ur worth and find someone who appreciates you and you wont give the guys that dont a second thought

If i can suggest you can go into your profile and follow the instructions to verify your pic and then go into your account and verify your phone. And now you do not want to quit being yourself. You would never be happy that way. Everything in life takes time, patience and hard work. rainbow is right enjoy being single and love will find you when it is the right time. Never ever stop being who you are. Its dishonest to others and yourself especially.

I agree with brat....do the verification stuff and then just slow down...relax and see ehat happens...u never know when lightning is going to strike but in can be gorgeous if ur lookin!!

Thank you for your suggestions.been single since aug.ive been looking but last few months not so much as before.my biggest issue at tha moment is dealing with stress of raising kids alone and just tha loneliness in general.it gets to me here and there.i dont mean to sound desperate bc im not.if i was i would settle for anyone and not be on here at all ya know?

I understand im raising mine by myself and it does get hectic at times. But just relax and take your time and be patient. Join into some of the other forum topics and have fun with us.

Know that u are not alone. There seems to be alot of single moms with the same problem. Your a pretty lady and at sum point you will meet a man that will want u and ur kids so just hang in there.

Dont get stressed raising your kids alone , it's difficult but enjoy your time raising them and dont get pressured of finding love because you are lonely. Better to completely enjoy and embrace the beauty of life of being single.

@sheena84: yeah im having trouble and it can be really disheartning