As I view the ladies on here. Whats the BEST way to get noticed? Send a "wink"or"send a message"first? I never did take DATING 101 in Highschool. Never thought I'd needed it. Help an old guy out here somebody! All tips are welcome and I don't mean money. It's a joke if you didn't have a baseball glove on to catch it.

Winks are nice but id rather have a message. i would probably send both, a wink then a message. :)

Firstly,winks and later message if she winked back

I prefer a message over a wink.

Send a message, winks are annoying & make me think that a guy's not really that interested in me because he couldn't be bothered to write me a message.

@profvicky: i agree with u

I personally prefer to send a wink first, if a person is interested in chatting i'd hope they would wink back and then i'd message them... although this doesn't seem to work a great deal so maybe a message straight up is the way to go.

Lol....women dont like being the ice breaker. If a man wants to know us, he should msg us not wink and HOPE we wink back. Jus my opinion