Ok what happend is i have this friend when me and my x split we messed around and she found out she is dieing her lungs r going to collaps and today she told me she cant get over what we did and she loves me and want to be with me but the fact that she is going to die hurts me but if i go stedy with her and grow feeling like that it will just hurt that much more. I just lost my friend i had since middle school and 6 months ago my x left and now this i love her as a friend and there is some attraction but idk what to do

Wow, u have alot on ur shoulders there. I think u should be there as much as u can for ur friend, show as much love towards her that u can handle. Its going to be hard at her passing, but u will know she was happy and felt love. Dont think about what its going to do to u, thats selfish, be there for ur friend, u will be rewarded in life down the road.

Brite is absolutely right.

I had a friend that was born with a lung disorder and we both loved each other but knowin that she was suppose to be dead already stopped us from really movin forward and that was 10yrs ago and last i checked she is still alive. And i wish i would have done things different so man to man i say love her because u dont want to live with the what if!

Dans right. If u feel real love for her u should act on it. I did and even though he is gone i would not give up one single second of it.

Omg all of this is so sad ...to much 4 me 2 handle 2nite just got back from my friend Micale with stage 4 colon cancer ......b there 4 ur friend please she needs u........

:( ....

OP, i have a friend whose bf was in a military, got ambushed and died but she decided that prior that her bf be cremated, she got married to him. It was the saddest wedding i'd attended in my whole life.

My friend has no regret. If you love her then go... Tomorrow is a mystery and who knows, you'll enjoy life together in the next 50 years

I will i guess my real problem is i dont know if i can be strong enogh

Alot of people think dying is the worst thing. Its maybe my faith that makes me this way but i think as long you love them while u can and know they will be well loved after then u can enjoy what time there is.. Short or long

She dont have that long maybe a year