Do you think that physical attributes are more important to maintaining a successful relationship or do you think that friendship maintains a relationship?

I think the friendship and personality are more important. Looks change people usually don't.

I think in maintaining a relationship on both sides is that you have trust and faith in one another friendship is part of it. And the effort of going through good with the bad. Physical i could careless about. Its wheather he makes me laugh and is understaning. Here a good man is the one who cherishes his woman. Understands her. Walks beside her. Wipes her tears when shes crying. Does not make her jelous but makes others jelous of her.

Sorry when gives me one on women i will post it. To each person its different. We all have a different way a looking at things and people.

People, especially men, focus too much on looks and physical attributes. A good looking woman can get away with a lllllot lol. I've seen guys constantly go after good looking women, even when their other qualities are average or not good...or horrible. Even if looks didn't change, it shouldn't be more important than someone's personality, heart and character. If you're interested in someone, you have fun and have a connection with them, don't walk away from all that just because of a physical imperfection. Guys: don't let some extra weight on a woman, a flat chest, some super pale skin/super dark skin, freckled or acne skin, big feet, gap tooth, deformed nose, whatever the case may be - don't let a physical imperfection be a deal breaker. People just don't get it these days. Grow up and be with someone solid, whose gonna make you a better person and stand by you. Ladies, that goes for you too - leave those creeps alone.

Im glad guys think i look good but i want them to like me as a person even more

Im the same way donna. I like being told im beautiful. But thats not me thats what i look like not who i am. I want them to see the whole me. Im glad i found daren. He wants to know who i am inside and out. And hes fun to be with. People have to look at the beauty with in the person.

@brats, im soooo happy for u, he is a lucky guy to have a girl as sweet as u

U know i seen a profile and sum of u may recognize the words, i mite not quote it exactly but it said "ur looks may attract my attention but its ur personality that will attract my heart." Very well said. The most beautiful of people are usually single for a reason.

When I like a woman she's becomes beautiful and visa versa