Its kinda sad you know when girls that you dont even find attractive but spark some intrest and you kinda start to think you like them start messagin you and then just fall off the face of the earth as if im not good enough for them? I have busted my tail to be where i am.. I have a good job im a relativly strong minded person and i live my life to the fullest everyday.. Yeah ive been thru alot... hurt a few ppl and had more than my share of bein hurt but dont just judge me off the jump y cant you even give me a fightin chance? and idk im ravin i cant clear my head.... ppl help me out here!

Not all of us are like that

Awww honey, we've all been exactly where ur at rite now. Women feel that men judge to quickly as well, we have to be tall thin and beautiful, ofcourse men say none of that matters, but it does to an extent. All women dont judge men as u desribed, those women are selfish and unsure of themselves. U'll find someone who loves u for the man u r. Go ahead and vent tonite get it all out, then let her go, start looking for the one that deserves u and what u have to offer. :)

Probably because they werent the one for you. Dont change yourself but change your perspective on the type of girls your interested in. Sorry i had a guy do that to me a couple of months ago. But you dont see me saying anything about all guys. Because that would be wrong to caterize you as him. But you will find someone. I found a great guy afterwards. So think positively. Besides that i know people read but dont post. Dont let them read this stuff. Because if it was me that read it and not posted i would think you think this about all women. And i wouldnt want to talk to you. Life is what you make of it. So we all had some bad adventures. Your not the only one this happens too. All i can say is be you and buck it up. It takes time to find that special person. We all have to go through bad that what makes us stronger. Good luck on your search for your special lady. I realize your venting and you have every right too. Because girls like them give us good girls a bad name. Hope you feel better.

I guess sometimes there is no "connection" between you and the person you are chatting/talking too, so the conversation gets boring or what but it doesn't mean because of your looks or whatever unless they are rude to say that and if that would be the case , then you save time knowing that , that certain girl is unworthy of your attention ....

I didnt mean to put it as though all women are like that but from my perspective most are... Well most ppl are..guys too.. they judge and criticize ppl and have no reason other than... say.. They misinterpreted something you said or... They just go from based on looks or income ,etc.. So let me ask you guys something when a person trys to initiate a convo wat is the first thing you do? Do you try to talk to them or do you hop right to their profile and see wat they are all about?? and in my last post i said the thing bout attractive i was implyin as a person as a whole entity just wanted to clear that up lol after reading it in hind sight i thought it was misleadin

OP, correct me if I'm wrong. You're saying that most people judge & criticize other people is for me you are judgemental too. How do you know that most people are judgemental? Is it because you chatted 10 or 20 people here? Or in your workplace? In your area?

to Answer your question, it depends on how a person starts a convo. I look/read his profile to ensure he check and read my profile before initiating a convo and if we are on the same boat

@Rainbowbutterfly: to answer your question ppl at work, in my area, and pretty much everybody i have talked to on here... And i dont feel im being judgemental im simply observing ppls actions. Idk it can be so frustratin to be blown off.... I guess wat im tryin to say is that its just very frustratin to not be given a chance idk

I read there profile to see if we have common ground and i do answer people. I dont ignore them. And our society is judgemental. Its our choice as individuals to choose not to be this way. It is frustrating to not be given a chance.