Lets say u can tell someone is checking u out and u think she is cute as well but ur the kinda guy whos to shy to say hi or anything else u wait for them to speak to u even tho girls dnt do that so u get nowere. So asking since im shy dnt know how to speak and shouldnt have to change a part of me to meetsomeone what other ways can i get her to come say hi to me. Any suggestions

Just jump in, take the chance

Thats the thing im to shy i look down i studder and i should have to change me to meet someone. Y is it this generation believes men have to speak first do we always have to leaves the nice guys like me empty cause im not a ******* its wierd and i guess harder for me to exsplain than id thought

Well ur talkin to me, just do the same with girls u meet

It on both parts. What if shes shy too. If shes checking you out but is to shy too. One of you have to break the ice. Two you have to over come your shyness and there arew ways to do that. Confidence in your self is a sure way to beat it. And if she is the girl of your dreams or might be. You have to start some where. Because if you dont speak up now. She might not be there down the road.

I recommend making eyecontact and give her a chance to speak and if she doesnt just a hey or just make a comment and get the ball rolling dont over think it just go with ur gut.

Well speaking from a shy person to a shy person, a smile can say alot, make eye contact, which is extremely hard for me to do, but if u make eye contact ive learned u smile and silently say hi....it opens alot of doors. And no u shouldnt change urself but u shouldnt expect a girl to either, if she says hi, are u gonna be able to open up and make conversation with her? Jus be urself thata really all any of us can do...good luck darlin

Is hard i know. Im crazy shy. Seems to me yuve been in your comfort zone a long time. All i could say is. Leave ur comfort zone. I wont lie itshard really hard. But once you do it the first time it gets easier. Make females a part of your comfort zone. Doors will open up. But you got to get your foot in there first. As for changeing yourself. It imo shows chivlry. It shows charecter that alot of good guys lack nowadays. My suggestion is try it out. Even if your passing by just say hey if she stops you then talk to her a bit. If she dosent then atleast you broke the ice first. Hope my advice helps and goodluck.

You could try starting a thread in a forum about being shy and asking folkes for advice on how to meet girls :-)