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Was I in the wrong? (by kitkatkaity)

 kitkatkaity 
22-Jan-13 10:06 am
Okay, so a male I have been chatting with on here asked for a photo of me "just the way I was"... That is not the issue, the issue is "just the way I was" was not decent for a picture. I told the person that when I showered and dressed the next day I'd take a photo to which the person responded "just pull a blanket over you". No! That is indecent of me. Plus he'd have power over the photo. I'm not in the wrong for being stern and ugly about this, am I?

 

 

 
 
 tractorjohn 
22-Jan-13 10:10 am
No you are not. If you wanted to send him a photo of yourself you should send one you already have saved.

 

 

 
 
 kitkatkaity 
22-Jan-13 10:13 am
Thank you, John. I had no problem taking one the next day because I have very few on my phone because my memory card got deleted, just not right then. I just feel he lacked respect for me personally.

 

 

 
 
 kitkatkaity 
22-Jan-13 10:14 am
And I guess he gave me bad karma for having self respect, lol.

 

 

 
 
 tractorjohn 
22-Jan-13 10:25 am
And I guess he gave me bad karma for having self respect, lol.
Sounds like he got mad. You deserve better respect than that.

 

 

 
 
 kitkatkaity 
22-Jan-13 10:32 am
I really am a sweet girl, I don't enjoy incidents like this but ooh well!

 

 

 
 
 tractorjohn 
22-Jan-13 10:38 am
I believe lots of people know you're a nice person, if you don't believe it start a poll. I'm only joking

 

 

 
 
 Giggles 
22-Jan-13 10:39 am
@kitkatkaity: Yep what John said and if he gave you bad karma then hes a poop head in my book :) Good on you girl for standing your ground :) No means No :)

 

 



Last edited by Giggles; 22-Jan-13 10:40 am.
 
 
 kitkatkaity 
22-Jan-13 10:45 am
Thank you both and John, I believe we have plenty of polls.

 

 

 
 
 Dslaney92 (13)    (31 / M-F / Georgia)
22-Jan-13 11:16 am
Take a stand and don't second guess yourself. You made the right call. If he can't respect that he's just another as$hole

 

 

 
 
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