To so many it has become a normal thing to engage in sexual intercourse before marriage and this has led to so many relationship crisis. If you are a lady u shudnt rush into his bed just because he promised u marriage or love. To me I think d matrimonial bed should be kept undefile. We should engage in christian relationship that have a destination. I stand to be corrected if I'm wrong but I know I'm not wrong. What's your view on this?

Dream vs Reality exits within this concept but no, you're not wrong at all PureGold. I agree with you to a large degree.

The Bible does not say Marriage is signing a piece of paper. It is choosing one partner to have it with for your life. So yes, if its the only person you are with and you are sure your relationship is solid:) Please dont tell me Im going to hell because I dont believe exactly what you believe-I was raised up in the church, actually played the organ for Altar Call& have a very close PERSONAL relationship w God. I know in my heart that I am going to heaven when I leave this world and do not need anymore opinion on that subject:) Thanks;)

@JustMeAndYou77: now that's a God fearing woman

@Sammy2: I think u and I really need to talk about this your "believe" thing later. I need to open scriptures to you but d question is,will u open ur heart to d reality of d scriptures I will open to u? Answer pls

Yes and no i didn't have any sexual relation until i was married and she cheated on me and then left so yes i do believe in no premarrital sex and at the same time no i do not due to the fact that sometime it doesn't turn out to the effect that god would allow for it to be and in some cases just not mine it doesn't if you agree or not is your own choice everyone has thier own ideas on the subject mine is on both asseptes of the side law ( both biblical and demostic )

Yes, I am and personally believe in marriage. It can be a wonderful blessing in life just as it can be hell on earth lmao However, there is that battle with how it happens and when blah blah blah. All of the in between stuff that pretty much get left out.

I think I have been very clear on this subject w you:) I do not need you to tell me your interpretation of scriptures. I pray for clarity and have studied the Bible all my life. Our interpretations differ& that is ok with me:) I dont tell you that you should see it my way& I truly am not interested in seeing it your way:) I believe what I believe after years of struggling to be perfect in Gods eyes. I assure you I will continue to walk w God & you need not worry about my soul-its in His hands:)

There's not much gray area in the bible only fire and brimstones unfortunately lmfao

Just like it says in the bible adultry is grounds for devorce in gods eyes but you must try everything in your human power to make it work. But yet you still have to file for a devorce. Do you understand ? Everything that is writing in the bible dictates to mondern day life so not having sex before marriage is your choice as a human being to decide yes/no just as god would want it to be yes he loves us but he also wants us to choose freely to follow his words and laws.