don't feel bad,their are only about 20 people in my reasonable search area,and most have not been on in a long time. So I just like to chat in the forums. Made some cool friends here,like brite ,brats,and giggles. Just chill and have some fun. If you look too close you miss the bigger picture.

this is so true, and the reason im just looking for friends right now. im trying to meet new people and get to know them better before i actually start looking for a love interest.

@Alays1a: Jjd614 has given you some wise advice. please be patient and dont be so quick to find love. people will take advantage of this. i would hate to see you get scammed. make friends for now and take it slow. JMO :))

Alays1a, please don't fall in the pit of despair. This is online dating and isn't any different than real life dating except it offers you more opportunity to pre-screen and get into an extensive communication before you decide to do something real that you may or may not regret. It's ok to be real about how you feel but also be very careful. Based on this post, it can be misunderstood as desparation or extreme availability. You're new so just enjoy mingling here in forums for a little with us and using your search features. You are a beautiful young woman and there is no need to accept all of the "things" that respond to you lol Give the good guys a chance only. They wont let you down or hurt you :)

@Alays1a: Girl, you joint this site yesterday......listen what everybody has to say, you couldnt bake yourself a man in this short of time! Lol hang in there and be a little more patient ! :)