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Let's say you and a guy are just friends (by singlefatherof2)

 heikeva (69)   (61 / F-M / Bayern)
28-Dec-12 , Just Now
Nope i wouldnt be mad , add 10 more if you like,its fb, some people have 100's of friends ! Is there more to the story??? Lol ;)

 

 

 
 
 singlefatherof2 
28-Dec-12 3:41 pm
No, not as far as I know. That's pretty much the full story. Lol

 

 

 
 
 anonymoususer321 
28-Dec-12 3:42 pm
@heikeva: You'd be surprised, I remember an ex freaked that I had mostly girls as friends. (And JUST FRIENDS with the others is all it was. I just generally hate my own gender and being raised by all girls, get along with girls more.)

I'm not a girl to answer this, but again it would depend on the situations. If it was flipped, was the girl flirting with me? Maybe kinda making me think she wanted more? If so, then if I saw her doing same with other guys, might sting a bit. I wouldn't go ape****. People think I can be flirty at times, maybe I am, when I'm just being geniue/joking around. So it can always be misunderstood.

Personally without hearing other side, sounds like she overreacted, HOWEVER, I agree with Brit in the fact, every story has two sides. Doesn't mean the other side changes this any differently but yeah. xD

 

 

 
 
 missceekay 
28-Dec-12 3:47 pm
Totally objective opinion. Trust is the key. If you reverse the situation, trust is still key. Never assume the worst unless there's indisputable proof of deception.

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
28-Dec-12 3:48 pm
I think its probably just a piece of the story...that's been my experience when something is mentioned on the forums. no one wants to give the real deal but Idk that's just me. I have 170 friends on fb...some men some women. only way id get upset is if someone lied to me about fb....friend or bf ....trust is trust....lying is lying jmo tho

 

 

 
 
 justbmyself (22)   (41 / F-MF / Zambia)
28-Dec-12 3:50 pm
us ladies turn to be more protective(jealous) more especially when we like a guy. That lady likes him too much

 

 

 
 
 singlefatherof2 
28-Dec-12 3:52 pm
Well no one really lied bout FB but either way, if they're just friends, why get mad about them adding someone on their FB? Honestly why get mad in general when it is their FB and can add whomever they please?

 

 

 
 
 kiesha (4)   (41 / F-M / Jamaica)
28-Dec-12 4:01 pm
Sometimes you may say a person is your friend or just a friends. But sometimes a person will see their friendship at threat if a third person is envolved. Especially if they have feelings for you. The only way to eliminate dishonesty with each other is to be honest about your friendship with each other.

 

 

 
 
 Nursehanee15 (14)    (35 / F-M / Philippines)
28-Dec-12 4:03 pm
@singlefatherof2: First of all,it is quite obvious that the girl likes you to act as paranoid as that. Second, it was not an appropriate reaction knowing that both of you are just friends.
There ain't no need to make a big deal out of nothing. :)

This is how I saw the situation,not knowing the other party's side. :) A good talk will always be of li'l help! :) Clear out some issues,but most especially,know where both of you stands in each other's lives. :)

 

 

 
 
 justbmyself (22)   (41 / F-MF / Zambia)
28-Dec-12 4:05 pm
us ladies turn to be jealous,alot! more especially if we like someone,more especially our "just friends!" it life

 

 

 
 
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