Some of us are actually looking for a relationship... Why do these guys ask for sex right off and then get mad when you tell them you are waiting to get married.. They say we have issue..no..it's guys like you that ruin being in the moment when you use us and leave.. Who wants to be used over and over... If all you want is sex please dont inbox me..go to facebook you will have plenty of luck there...this is a nice site let's keep it that way.

AMEN sista!!!!!

@ATLANTASCORPIO: dats so true many ask ma wife

u feel lik givin up on findin a gud guy whn all u get re sex requsts :(

Thats why the karma and dump button where made. If your not verified you cant do the karma but you can use the dump button and never hear from them. And anyone with negitive karma you dont have to read there mail at all because that was probably why they got that karma or just rude.

Hi AtlantaScorpio, I totally agree girl. The ladies who are single and even the guys should not be solicited constantly. The dump feature makes it where you wont see their postings here in forums but you will still see their name. And, they wouldn't be able to send you a message to your inbox. However, an even better way is to set your contact restrictions. It works great because if they are only looking for intimate encounters or activity partners, they will get filtered out.

Yep yep....contact restrictions...especially as a premium user, i dont get contacted by married, or seeking intimate encounter....no thanks

Thanks guys.....its really starting to become annoying...im saving myself for marriage even though i have kids and an exhusband...starting over feels great and im making no exceptions....

yes. I Like your idea. Thats awesome. Start fresh. A friend on heres profile gave me an Idea and it seems to be working. When a guy first messages me I lay down the rules. I tell them this... Right now I am just lookin for friends. I wont give out my number til Im ready, I Dont send nudes and dont want nudes. I dont do phone sex or intimate encounters. And if they dont like it dont text me.... I have said that to quite a few who never text back. Try it, it may help. Have fun. And stick to your rules.

Im doing that now...i give my number to text though..easier than coming on here all the time...within 10 minutes of texting me they send a nude pic..im like wth! One asked me to send him my sex video..again..wth! My pic is a little misleading..i have on shorts but still..im not a loose woman..cant seem to change it..