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Major issue need all the advise i can get lol (by camziggy18)
I like two guys and now i have to make a decision on which one. I have told them about my issue and they are very understanding and just want to know which one it will be. They arent pressuring me into making a quick decision they want me to take my time. They both are so caring and they make me laugh and smile all the time. They are both there when i need somebody no matter what. But i think its time to give them an answer since its been bout 3 months since i told them bout each other. So is there any advise anyone can give me????
Could always have both. Lol. J/K. Just go with the one that you feel is for you. Only you know that answer. No one else can choose for you.
why did u tell the guys about each other? Just wandering.
Go with the second one because you wouldnt like him if you truely liked the other. or drop both and like a new guy, your choice
well this is my rule of thumb, if u find yourself in love with (or liking) two guys at the same time you should go for the second one cuz if u truly loved or wanted the first one u never would have fallen for the second one. Once u meet someone u want u stop looking so id say sense u didn't automatically stop then number 1 guy isn't truly enough....but Idk js
Last edited by Briteeyes; 11-Dec-12 3:24 pm.
@Briteeyes: I like the way you think, very logical. Also Happy Birthday!!!!
I say go with the one that feels right to you. I dont think choosing the second one just because you talked to him after the first guy. I assume you are very nice and just started talking to him. And found that they both have things in common with you. So i say the one that feels right to be with is the one you choose.
It doesn't matter which one you choose. If they both make you happy then you will be ok. Just make sure it's one that you could spend the rest of your life with. I think I saw that 'choose the second guy' thing on one of those internet greeting cards once. It just sounds familiar, not saying that's where u got it from.
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