Sooo I'm a dancer and I went on Facebook earlier and one of my guy friends asked me for a lap dance and he was super serious sooo I wanna know what's the big deal about a lap dance ? ._.

Apparently lap dances gives some guys massive boners.

@Ayonowyn: I know and that's what I wanna figure out...like why does a guy get all wound up?

I never understood it either

To me a guy can use it as being close to a woman doesnt mean betting a big ass *****.some men have proubly been alone for a long time.it make him feel apprecated that a beautiful woman is there maybe for only a lap dance but just for paying attention to him for that moment. At least thats my point.i us to be a body gaurd for a dancer.and that what i seen in the gentlmen.

Id go for the fantasy effect.

Well maybe its just me and the way I do lapdances...

It doesnt matter how you do the lap dances toppless or full nude.i dont think youre getting the point in youre question. Ask youre self this are you there to make that man happy or just there for the money. I think you are there for both you asked the question on what a guy see in a lap dance.well it can be for the fantacy like mentioned by april666. Or for the simple reason the gentlemen enjoyes youre company.if you want to look at it on the perverted side then thats all youre going to think and then you should do a differnt line of work.

Shes not getting the point of her own question?

Nope spencer she isnt.lmao.