hi there, is it wrong to want more in life than just a man by your side for sex? I mean sex is good yes, but is it what we strive to find anymore? Is there any men out there that cares about the inside rather than being inside?lol

i want to know the same thing, sometimes.

I care whats on the inside not being inside. True beauty is whats in ur heart.

Relationships are def more than just physicalities....if thats even a word. Its about the thrill of getting to know someone on an intimate level. Everyday the excitement of learning something new about them.....good AND bad. The thrill of caring about someone so much that they make you learn new things about yourself as well. And thats just the beginning.....so yes....to answer your question there is some us who still care.

The inside is more important then being inside what i mean is if he or she is shallow then its lust it take more then that to know who he or she is or are in the inside with out being inside.

the heart is so pure to come out wit wat is inside, trust me u wouldnt like wat is inside?

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how many guys are gonna say "what truly is important is whats on the inside, not being inside"? i mean come on...some of you may be sincere but dont you think truly we say what we think women want to hear? stop sugar coating it fellas....if the boot fits wear it....because i am not talking to all you guys that post....the lying dog barks the loudest. me i love sex really love sex. but i also love to love...there is a difference between sex and making love. i do want to be physically attracted to a woman..but personality is key. my ideal woman is attractive with a good personality...if i love her i will wait for her in all aspects example sex, marriage. i wont dump her just because she wont give me sex...sadly alot of men do that. word

Well if you read my post i said theres more to it than that. I think we all realize the physical aspect is just as important. And like you said not just "having sex" but actually making love.

thank u all for your input, makes sense and wish more men would show there true side that women know is there instead of just trying to be the stud all the time LOL thx again ;)