the trouble is idk if hes playing you or not. But we are all strangers whether we become virtual friends. A few months you dont really know each other totally. But if it was me and such a tradgedy i would fall to freinds or family that i knew most of my life. But i would let the person i was interested in have updates of the situation so they knew i was still intdrested but under stress. But we all deal with things and tradgedies different. The only thing i can ask you what does your instincts tell you?

To be honest i dont really know what my instincts is telling me cause i keep thinking two different things.i really hope things work out for us i guess its a wait and see thing. Thanks everyone for ur advice :)