i knew it was coming, i even made mention of it. as a man i can accept punishment and have no problem with it. on the flip side of the coin, andres, i mean no disrespect nor am i trying to start drama, however when certain threads are posted that are designed to depress other members of this site, it ruins the experience and takes the fun out of an otherwise awesome dating sight. i admit i was out of line and ill wear my duncecap, but as the majority agree, its the ones that want to constantly put how sad they are no matter how much advice they are given. ill refrain from saying my piece in the future, but i wonder if there is something that can be done about users such as these. they are making it so we as a whole cannot enjoy this wonderful site. youre right, its not high school, but that to me my friend is causing drama.

What does being dunced on this site mean, and what causes it?

its a temparary ban and breaking the rules is a good way to get dunced.

How do you know your banned and how do you know when your allowed back? Thanks paul. Shawn.

@[Warning: Posting of Contact Info is not allowed. Please follow the rules.]: itll tell when you enter the site, give the reason, and the ban lift date. no problem shawn

@PaulG7719: So in other words you were banned and now your back..Is that it?

@[Warning: Posting of Contact Info is not allowed. Please follow the rules.]: it was a temp ban.... like a go stand in the corner kinda thing. a perm ban is not what im lookin for lol

@PaulG7719: Paul your last message said (posting of contact info is not allowed please follow the rules) did you and i just break a rule somehow? I need to know this please.

your name is a phone number. so when i hit reply it usually says: @username..... but it wont show a phone number and gives that message. i dont think its a big deal though so it should be fine.

Hi Paul!!! wb Good to see you....