Frustrated with guys who say they can date me they don't mind kids but in all honesty they always bail out. What's sad is some of these guys have kids themselves!! I just wanna talk and get to know a guy with similar interests and then see where it goes... Is that so much to ask for!!!???

Honey there is nothing wrong with what you ask. But maybe change your perspective about the guys you have dated that run off. Try looking at guys that are different from what you are dating. Your guys out there some where so just be patient.

Accepting someone elses children is harder for men then for women i believe. So men saying they dont mind kids is one thing but actually in reality it terrifies them. Children take attention away from them, and if they have children alot of the time they r afraid of the competition between the children. Thats jus my opinion, im a mother and was a step mother for 10 years and thats what i noticed and learned during my experience.

I had no kids of my own but i did have 2 step kids. And most men want to feel wanted and needed and that they do wear the pants in the relationship and when theres a tug of war with those things and the mans ego he will bail 9 times out of 10

@763dan8578: uh-oh

But on the bright side what woman needs a man thats jealous of a kid? Hang in and dont settle

Thank u everyone! Just guys say I'm down for u in everyway and their just liars!!

@MzBarbi86: yeah alot of men will say whatever they think u want to hear. But dont move to quick and watch em actions speak louder then words

@MzBarbi86: dnt rush get to know da fool then invite him into yo life. its a lot of diggin b4 u find gold

I love kids, i have my one of my own, hmu and lets chat sometime