Ok am engaged to this guy we met on this site we are currently liveing together in ga well too top that off am haveing his baby well what i want too know if a guy loves you and you say i love you too him and all you get back is what ever and you ask him if he loves you all he can say is why if u love some one you should not have too have a reason why it should be a easy yes baby i love you am i rite ?

@sexybitch4life: some guys are not expressive unlike us women. Love can not be measured also by words but the sincerity & genuity of it could be found through his action. Not all guys who keep on saying "i love you babe " truly loves you...

@Rainbowbutterfly: yea but he used to say it all the time but now he dont

I agree with rainbow butterfly. Some guys are uncomfortable with saying it. And yes his actions should say it . But if your not getting anything at all then you need too talk to him. Because i read you had four kids in a post already. And is this one your gonna be his first baby. A baby it is different from having actual children that run outside and play. The only thing i can tell you is you need to sit down and talk to him.

@sexybitch4life: there are stages in a relationship & perhaps at this stage, because you are pregnant, he's mind is somewhat occupied by excitement for the baby & preparation. As long as he never change his attitude toward you, there's nothing to worry about I guess. Take care & don't stress yourself, ok? :)

Brats has a valid point too. Correct me if I'm wrong but you are somewhat afraid that he's gonna leave you and what you need is an assurance...As what brats pointed out, let him know what you feels...

My kids are 5 4 2 years old&10 months they call him daddy and yea he loves the fact we are having a baby there for a while he went thur doubt saying it was not his but hes the father and i miss how he used too be sweet kind careing and loving to me

Some time people get scared and excited and emotions running wild can even make things more harder on him. Yes he excepts the kids as any person should when dating someone with kids. But this will be his first. And there is always excitment. Then comes doubt. Strong emotions can blind people to how they actually feel if they happen at once. You need to talk to him and talk it out.

I think we all need and desire to hear the words I love you from the one we love. Yes their actions speak louder, but him saying whatever is an action, hes choosing not to say it back to u for whatever reason. He needs to know this bothers u, and if u two cant meet in the middle then ur going to have a tough relationship down the road.

I asked him he didnt say any thing and hes had a kid before it just not his by blood and am scared he acts so not him self idk what too do