I seem to have nothing but bad luck with men im the kind of person that is loving king and always trys my best to make my man happy. What im I doing wrong?

Thats a hard ? To answer with out knowin u but heres a few thoughts and or ?'s. Why are u attracted to guys like that. Look back and try c if there is a common factor with each man. Every man wants a good woman but there reasons vary. Sum want a mom, nanny etc.

@dan I dont think it has anything to do with being attracted to that type of man. Thats like saying women are attracted to men that were "bad boys" in their past...but yet claim they have changed...so is the woman attracted to the old bad boy or the new good guy? Men r the same way...if their single does tht mean they r attracted to the wrong type of women cuz it obvious hasnt worked out for them either.

The ever elusive happiness... My experience it is an inside job. That being said, my advice is to spend less time working so hard to make a man happy, and more time making you happy and to leave men alone who need you to be responsible for their emotional well being and dan's suggestion about looking for patterns was in past relationships was on target as well

I guess OP, every one who is inlove will try their very best to please and make their man/woman happy, however , sometimes, our best isn't enough for him/her that's why we failed but dont beat yourself. As long as you know you did your best and been faithful , you'd done no wrong. It's just that, you're not meant for each other and God prepares someone better for you. :)

Brite theres a reason why we pick the spouse we pick regardless if its a good guy or bad or a ***** what ever the case theres a reason why they are attracted to us or we to them. Personly believe, figure out why and break the habit.

I think that you try to hard to make them happy. You got to be happy too. It goes both ways in a relationship. They should also be trying to make you happy also not you do everything to make them happy. I do think you have to look into the past at the type of guys you have dated also. So what you were atracted to or them to you and change it. In every relationship everything is 50/50. But maybe you should stop catering to them first till you find out if the are willing to go the extra step for you also. It does go both ways. Good luck with your search.

@swfreeman: maybe I can change that my is Roland I live in Greensboro but I have uncle at work in Tory I was down there a lot in the summers but he moved to rockingham I have don't been in long time you can call me and we can talk and see if we have anything in common [Warning: Posting of Contact Info is not allowed. Please follow the rules.]

Absolutely agree! And, I agree that we should pay attention and avoid bad patterns of men. It's not to say we're totally responsible for grabbing the wrong guys. Some of those wrong guys chase the hell out of good women. Why would wrong guys pursue the wrong women? That would be too good lol So it's good to pay attention to pattern so we wont repeat it and further corrupt our hearts. I get it.:)

I used to do and feel the same way, cuz i tried to make myself happy with doing so, than i realized no matter how hard you try if the other person doesnt give a rats a..ss it wont change a thing! Him or you yourself will not ever find happieness ever in such a relationship!