@capricornlady76: They are too immature and selfish. They cant handle that kind of responsibility. I have 2 kids and 4 grand children. I wouldnt trade them for anything. Either 1 of my kids know all it takes is a phone call and dad is there for them.

There either scared or lowlifes that just wanted sex im 34 and have a 12yrold daughter who lives with me i dont know about them but i love my daughter

my kids father took off when i was 1 month prego with my youngest son

I have to agree with larz, they're not willing to put in the time and effort it takes to raise a family...a real man would never walk away from their child

i have to admit that i'm a single mom by choice. the donor and i had broken up before i found out i was pregnant. when i told him he wanted to get back together but i'd seen too many couples "stick it out for the children" and it was never a good situation- i didn't want that for my daugher.at first, i was willing to allow him to be in her life, but then i kept hearing from reliable sources the things he was getting into and i didn't want my daughet exposed to that lifestyle (he's heavy into drugs and drinking and playing the welfare system), he's never tried to see her tho and i doubt he even knows her name, but i honestly prefer it that way.

My ex tried to run with my son after he was born had to drag her to court just to c him and now i have half custody that dsnt make me a bad father cause my boy means da world

i can only say this..... when my son was born i made him a promise to protect him and never leave him. 2 years later my daughter was born..... same promise to her. 2 years after, thier mommy does me so very wrong. and when she put me out of my own home...... she learned that the grass wasnt greener. she got screwed royally. we get to talkin and we made one of the hardest decisions ever. so now im in a home that i used to be the man of, and i take care of my kids day in and day out. the time i was away from my kids was so painful. i let them down. but because im daddy i do what i have to to be with them. its been a year since then. and im still here, putting up with a lazy woman that does nothing but sleep and work, and being a single parent because she cant be bothered to even help potty train my girl. now with all that said........ what do you think about that?

There are nice guys out there but watch out cuz there boys they think they are a man and they can do whatever they want

@capricornlady76: wELL I AM A SINGLE DAD .MY EX WIFE WALKED OUT ON 3 KID S 3 YEARS AGO .I DONT KNOW HOW ANYONE COULD DO THAT .