Lately Iv seen a couple threads abt young girls upset bcuz they were either pregnant, or jus had a baby, and the baby daddy is a loser. Jus a bit of advice, USE A CONDOM until u are 100% sure the guy ur sleepn with is not a moron! As a matter of fact, use a condom,get on the pill, put in a diaphragm AND make him pull out! Maybe a better idea is to JUST buy a vibrator. No orgasm is worth having a kid with a moron. Just something to think abt next time that guy u jus met says he really does love u and will only put it in for a minute.

Best way to not have kids is not have sex! Control yourselves ppl!!

And if u don't think, then accept those consequences. yea it aint fair men can walk away, but it sure as hell aint fair to p*ss and moan and leave ur baby having to ultimately pay. Woman Up!!!!!!!

@James2112: I don't care if they have sex or not. I jus don't want to hear abt the problem that results from believing a idiots bs then getting upset cuz he's not there for them or the kid. Not judging anyone, but plz jus think abt the consequences of EVERY action u take

@Ram318: true and I don't care if they do have sex but I agree with LaDawn WOMAN UP!!! Lol

Hehehe...i laughed pretty hard...its that kinda thing it's so true, its funny...sorry

Thats only some girls cant really say its general population. in most cases the guy doesnt act stupid till after the baby is born and if your tired of hearing it then dont read it...just saying :)

@LaDawn1974: it isnt fair that men can just walk away? you do know that women walk away too? either parent ultimentaly pays say via child support or rejection from their children in the long run anyway...again...just saying :)

@autumnq20: u will have to forgive me but I definitely did not mean all young mothers. I had jus read one of several threads abt the guy being an idiot. I still stand by my comment which basically is to NOT get pregnant until u are 100% sure that u have a good guy. I wud evn say to try to be in the relationship a few yrs first. I've seen ur posts out here and u seem to be a very intelligent girl and didn't knowlingly mean to lump u in with these types of girl. If I did, plz accept my apology:)

@autumnq20: as Ram already beat me to saying I was aware his thread was in response to girls talking bout getting left holdin the bag. It isnt fair for either parent to walk away. but again I reiterate it sure isn't fair to the children. If u are a parent that stays it is ur job to man up or woman up an do the best u can to make ur child feel loved. not make them feel a burden.