i just wanna interject here and say learn to love yourself first, because you can't truly love or accept love until you do. That is experience talking...

@YouCantFixStupid: Yes, this is very true! An very good advice!

@Blondiegurl: wish someone woulda given me that advice at 18 and that I wlda listened for a change, at that age!

@YouCantFixStupid: YES, ME 2! 18 was the exact age that I ran 2 the 1st guy that said he loved me- I wldv luvd ur advice

18 here too, an older than me complete con artist that saw this little naive, love craving country girl from miles away! Live and learn is sometimes the hardest cliche to find true!

@YouCantFixStupid: OMG! Me 2! Well he was only 24, but completely the con! Loved 2 play mind games with me!

Mine was 28 and I didn't even realize it was mind games! Lmao! But good lord that man had the most beautiful green bedroom eyes I have ever seen! Eyes being the window to the soul is not an absolute thing! His eyes were mesmorizing orbs that just shone with sincerity and truth! Ha! But he sure made beautiful babies.

Mine was gorgeous blue eyes, an blond- an same here- gorgeous babies! 4 daughters! My 4 reasons 2 not regret!

I really don't regret any of it either...he taught me so many life lessons so fast and we have 2 kids that are all mine and so absolutely wonderful! I do feel guilty and regret if I spend too long dwelling on the fact that the consequences of my choices are depriving my kids of a loving father but I don't dwell, I can't change it I can just give em as much love as I can and hope it was enough.

@YouCantFixStupid: I can c that u r a great mom. I assure u that ur love z enough. my babies r all grown up now... wow