Yeah there's a lot of what if and a lot of unanwwered questions, not to mention trust becomes an issue too. sometimes i wonder if love is worth all the other emotion we all feel.

@chinesegirl41: I don't think love is worth it. I would say I don't believe in true love but I have felt true love.... I don't believe it comes around twice tho

I think What Ifs is the part that tear us apart the most. "what if i had done this?" "what if i was more this way?" etc. I still have those moments sometimes. But what i realized is that you can't concentrate on those what ifs. They'll only break you farther. Live life in the moment. Don't look back and regret things. Don't move forward by being cautious. If you think about those what ifs, you're just holding yourself back. Don't look back. :) keeping moving forward. Full force. Yeah you'll get your heart broken a few more times. Yeah sometimes it'll seem like your world is ending. But thats no excuse not to be happy:) don't limit your happiness to a man or an event or such. Be happy with who you are and how your life is:) if you wanna change something. Do it for you. Not for them. Live life to the fullest:)

Also, when your heart broken, friends are amzing. Keep your self busy and you'll find yourself not thinking bout the guy as much:)

@Skittles19: that's not very easy!

Friends are great mine really helped a lot, no advice just a shoulder to cry on, and an ear that listen. And an extra thing, 3 knocks on my head literally, ouch it really hurts, but it was done to snap me out of my crying.

@Funbichic1: true. It's not. Unless you actually put your whole self into it. Like i said before, it takes time. But tip, identify what makes him stay on your mind. If it's some photo that reminds you of him or if it's his constant calling. I know it's tempting not to answer that phone call or reply to that text. Trust me, i know. But think about yourself. Some people don't eat because of heart ache, some don't sleep, some even drive themselves to drinking. It's not healthy. If you want to talk to him then do so. But if you know it's unhealthy for you, then why kill yourself doing it??

Well all i can say is bunch of liers on here :(

That's the thing I have pretty much erased everything out of my life about him so nothing just constantly reminds me of him b

@Margot18: excuse me do you mean men or us on this forum?