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I need advice... (by sweetkisses1984)
(53 / F-M / California)I understand being a single parent as alot on here do. But instead of losing the rest of who you are you have some serious thinking to do. Whether you keep puting up with it or find a family member to stay with till you get back on your feet. Its your roads no one can tell you how to go. But serious thought has to go into this. And kids understand more than you think now days.
Personally if he is going to sit there after helping you and your 2 kids and throws it back in your face like yesterdays trash then he aint worth your time cause thats bs you either want to help and be serious i the relationship or be a d**k anday her feel like s**t im sorry but i would end it
If he is going to throw that in your face,when you are in fact trying to get a job,which is not easy in todays economy,he sounds like a real jerk to me. If he is giving you help he should give and not complain. If the return for his help is that you have to be his emotional punching bag,you should apply for state help,take your kids and leave. That is not a healthy place for yourbabies to be. Also you should not be subjected to such treatment because he has money. (this is called economic abuse) Chin up be strong and keep looking for work,it will get better if you make it. :-)
@nhguyinwoods: And purecowboy that is wonderful advice and absolutely agree.
@sweetkisses1984: if you have family that can help then go to them. If not then go to a womens shelter. They will help you and you can find the strength to restore yourself for you and your children.
@Fredrich09:he is not helping he is controling. @sweetkisses: can your parents help you for a while until you get some goverment aid or a job?
@Fredrich09:he is not helping he is controling its called abuse. @sweetkisses: can your parents help you for a while until you get some goverment aid or a job?
@sweetkisses1984:if he truly cares about u, he wouldn`t do that. He`s a smuck. Most guys r like that but i help out a couple of single moms out once in a while and ask nothing in return.
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