@gemolly1704: as a matter of fact im going through somewhat the same with distance ther is almost 300 nikes between my and the guy im talking to and everytime i try to see him he tells me no and i ahve kids but they live with there dad.I love this guy with everything but i dont get it he tells me he loves me and wants me to be a part of my life but acts like he doesnt want to see me at the same time he says he does ifd you have any advice please tell me thanks

I wont like 2 talk much on this issùe, but i will advice you to stay with your kid and be a good mother. We men are leirs Ã* think you know that

I wont like to talk much on this issùe, but i will advice you to stay with your kid and be a good mother. We men are leirs Ã* think you know that. I dont think you need someone who have dump you and the kid before to be their father again, my advice for you is to be a mother and father to your kid. All i believe is that one day you will find a better man dont wönt wana live without yöu for a secönds

@koblet: Dont you wonder whats he hiding if he doesnt want to see yoi. He sounds like a fishy guy!

@Trisha777: thats what i was thinking ive been wanting to ask him but im scared to

I've had same problem before, met nice sweet girl on here, talked longest time, but never would call and got anal when i pushed it so yeah ciao.

@Lonelyforher: again with the maybes...maybe she was embarrassed or shy or some ppl mumble and that could have delayed the phone call *cough* or texting was just easier for her some ppl cant spend a lot of time with a phone glued to their ear cuz per say...they have things to do and need their hands free or kids to take care of...im just throwing a few ideas out there!

All good points, but how can one mumble if they have never talked?

Also maybe's are just maybe's hopefull but always letting someone down.

@Jen198068: Maybe you scared of the answer cos u dont wanna hear it? We have lotsa intuition which we dont trust n we should cos we usually spot on. Theirs a saying when in doubt leave it out. Ive seen things which took me 4yrs to stop being in denial and no wonder da nile is da longest river in africa. I can kick myself for not going with my gut-clda saved 4yrs of waste. Put ya kids ist. I only realised recently my kids loves unconditional and relationships are not always. Hope ya sort it out.