It was just a question, calm down. I was simply wanting to know what goes on in their mind and why they don't understand. Thank you for that snarkey comment, Hawkeye, but I can handle rejecting men perfectly fine. Care to say anything else?

I believe miss fae that ur thread offered nothing for discussion, perhaps u just wanted to vent?...seems that u have it covered how to reject men so what exactly are u wanting ppl to reply on this thread?

I dont think the men knew u werent interested if u didnt have contact restrictions, ur fair game if u allow them to message u and after the first message u should of dumped or changed ur restrictions therefore they wouldnt of needed to "get the hint" unless u continued to lead them on.

Im not the one that asked this question! If you already know how to reject guys like that, why bother to ask people why they do it? It should be obvious.

This thread is typical of many I've seen lately. Someone asks a question, and wen they get a response they don't want to hear, they get all defensive. OP, I wasn't being snarkey. If u wouldve been on here awhile, u wud know wen I'm being snarkey. It was a response to ur question. Were all adults here, so why not reply in an adult manner?

I was hoping someone would offer some insight. If you don't think this was "thread-worthy" then do not comment on it. The only reasoning for you to do that is to argue. My thread offered more discussion than a "Who wants to text?" thread would. This was just something I was pondering. And I was new to this when I did not have up restrictions so I did not know I could do that, same with not knowing what "dump" did. But I figured it out. That doesn't mean I can't still wonder why.

Yea its creepy but ur legaly aged therefore it makes u fair game. Why they love bugging the much younger women i have no clue but my guess is u prob wldnt want to no wats going on in their minds lol i had to put age restrictions on mine too,im glad this site has those settings makes life much easier ;)

@MrRamtasticAkaRam318: It seems you need to read more closely. I was commenting on Hawkeye's post when I said it was snarkey, not yours. I am open to answers, but you did not answer any question I asked, you just questioned the point of my thread, which I then told you. I would be open to answers if they actually had anything to do with my question.

@MelissaFae: well to answer ur question then. Guys will msg anyone on a dating site. Old will msg young and young will msg old. They're jus tryin to find ANYONE. Make sense? It nutn personal

Im sure no one here meant any disrespect towards you! I certainly did not. When you post in the forums you have to expect comments that you like to hear and some you may not like to hear. Thats the point of discussion forums!