thats not really an answer...jus saying

I don't like to pass judgement either but...that is kind of a red flag cause you have to wonder: What did they do to end up in there? I think the reason behind that makes all the difference.

I think nomatter what they did everyone deserves friends, if u dont wanna date a convict then dont date em, but no need to dismiss them. We all make mistakes, some worse then others, some get caught and some dont. But we ALLLL need people to talk to and listen, they r jus like us, jus need someone to understand what they've been thru and why they did what they did.

Im curious, what are yall in for?

I understand what brite is trying to say but at the same time, if someone was locked up for molestation/rape/abuse of a child? There's no way I want to date you. Like, seriously...

And unless these men are trying to pursue some type of relationship with one of us, it's really none of our business what they're locked up for. That's their personal business and they don't have to put that out here in the forum for all to see.

And friendship is all and good...mebbe i cld see it after they were out...but WHILE still n?!? and to me increasing ur chances of picking up a stalker when they git out becuz they r obsessing with u while in is just too big a risk for me to take.

Alynn
I wasnt trying to be rude, I was just curious. I have enough idiotic friends who do stupid stuff to understand it doesnt mean youre bad or anything. If they want to say what it is fine, if not I wasnt gonna push it

I tell everyone i talk to

Alynn
Seriously. Onefriend of mine got drunk, and he was underage, and wouldnt let me take him home. So we went for a walk so hed feel less nautious, and threw up all over some guys pants and shoes. So they got into a fight. He got arrested and whatnot, but it was just stupidity, didnt make him bad. Im saying I understand lol