@Ram318: lol didnt offend me one bit. i just felt like speaking out giving my own personal opinion. it was more to their defense not mine so no hard feelings. you kinda gotta try to see it from their point of view. i mean they could do the wrong thing and get an abortion which in my eyes not correct. so gotta give them some credit there. and if your raising the man's child and he's having a grand old life its a bit upsetting. its hard its lonely its stressful so just dont hate on em so much :) i'm glad they took the responsiblity in the first place instead of harming an innocent life..again just saying :)

@LaDawn1974: there are treads out there discussing how mother's walk away and the father took the job full on so thats why i threw it out there. i was implying more to i guess my personal account being both parents walked away grandparents raised me then my father eventually recieved all three kids back and did it alone. i was sticking up for em. i didnt wanna get jumped for opening my mouth a bit it can get sorta like a war zone around here sometimes its best to just stay quiet but again i was just saying lol

@autumnq20: i am sorry that u feel u mght get jumped....that the forums have reched this point is said

I'm never afraid to speak up or express an opinion on here. As u notice I respond to a lot of threads. I don't take petty insults and judgements on here seriously cause its the people who don't do that that are worth talking to.

Its the drama i wanna try to avoid and then ppl can sometimes take offense to things i dont enjoy having to actually consider other's feelings while throwing out my own opinions but at the same time i rather avoid the insults and call outs i might not see things as others see them that doesnt make me wrong it just makes me opinionated. is that a real word or did i make that up it seems wrong lol

@autumnq20: yes that's a real word and I don't think you should have to be conscerned about what they think about your opinions if someone has a problem about it I would just ignore them. But that's me.

@autumnq20: it is a real word and thier is nothing wrong with being an opinionated woman, I myself am very opinionted (in case u hadn't noticed), but, and that is a great big but, when i give my opinions i dont judge...I cannot stand ppl that judge others. I think some of my most vehement posts reflect that.

Alright see if i really cared what others thought i wouldnt have asked that question it just didnt sound right lol see :) thanks for not being judgmental to my stupidity there =p lol

Tho to look at others responses is just reading there opinion .wether it causes an argue well it up to the individual. Not picking on the ladies but if ya wanna get ur panties in a bunch over what others say power to ya. And from my experience and those of friends both male and female can walk out just as easy as the other. I also agree that it how u deal with it that count as long as u put the children first. Starting to see alot of familiar faces on these forums and and noticing a few id like in my group of friend ie... Ram, brighteyes,autumn, ladawn, and rainbow, just to name a few. Am always looking for friends if ur interested

@masteroftheunknown: Well that was a nice thing to say! Thank you