My hats off to those of you who was smart enough to walk away. But what confusses the hell outta me is there are girls out there that are major sweethearts and stay with a dirtbag that mentally and or physically abuses them and the girls still put up with it cause they say they love them or think things will get better. Why? Why stay?Then theres guys who have a heart of gold who cant find anyone. Whats wrong with this? Why do the ****** bags have that love and good guys dont? Im confused.

in answer to this i find most of the time its because the woman is made 2 believe its her fault and sometimes u r just 2 scared. Dirtbags like that control u and play mind games until u believe what they r saying. Its not usually as simple as just walk away.

If they picked there nose...wait wrong thread lol

Deal breaker, hmmm.... If it's a first meeting or date, a bad negative attitude is a deal breaker. In a relationship, betrayal is a deal breaker. If a guy is going to betray me, he may as well have just blackened my eye because that's what it feels like and my reaction will be the same.

@Daisym: as a victim myself i tell u u hit it right on the head.....it has taken a year for me to sort my head out and get enough confidence to even think i could move on and be worth anything to anyone. To this day the scars run deep and i pray that one day i will not flinch when a man rasis his voice or backs me in a corner....