I need some advice. I went on a friendly date with a guy at work just to get off the house about a couple of weeks ago. The guy was acting a little weird but i thought it was just nerves. I let him know at the time it was just a friendly thing but i guess he didnt get the memo. Afterwards, he started following me around at work and people i know has caught him outright staring at me. He's constantly calling and texting. I told him again that i just wanted to be friends, not anything else, and he started calling and texting more. What do i have to do to get him to leave me alone cause he's starting to creep me out.

Get some mace,get a family member,and when u see him outside your house,,g.i jane the hell out of him with some homies,,,how sweet,

Tell him you have 5 older brothers, 3 of them have been to prison and all of them would go back again if he doesn't leave you alone. Get a male friend to pretend to be one of them and warn him off. If he gets too much, you should get the police involved.

Thats right ,kim,tell it like it is,,,now u know what to do,thanks to me and vampdoll

5-1-5-0 somebody call the Po po. Seriously, don't take any chances. Save ALL txts n voice mails, and call the cops. They'll tell u wat to do.

You might inform the police and let them know whats going on. And inform your boss and let them know whats going on. Friends family and neighbors co-workers should be informed. That way anyone sees him should report him. Its better to be safe than sorry.

Umm just change ur number duhh

I say ring the police and keep all text and phone calls and tell the police about what's been happening. Also take an A.V.O out on him or a with straining order so he cant get in 100 metres from u if so he breaches the order and then gets locked up. Good luck in what u decide

Ive never been stalked. But If you want to be left alone then tell him you have a bf and want to be left alone. If he acts strange or mad or anything then dont be afraid to call the cops. Ive heard too many murder stories on the news lately. And i dont want yours to be the next one.

Sometimes people don't want to change their number if its one they've had a very long time. And changing it everywhere can be a hassle. Its not her fault he is a crazy gimp who can't take a hint, she shouldn't have to change her number. But she should be more cautious about giving it to anyone after since, experience.