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My (36F) husband (38M) confessed that he?s never been sexually attracted to me. (by Sparky)
My (36F) husband (38M) confessed that he?s never been sexually attracted to me.
I?ve been working up the courage to post this for a few days. It?s embarrassing, even though I know I don?t really have anything to be embarrassed by.
My husband confessed that he?s never been sexually attracted to me. I?m really devastated by this and just feel gross about myself.
He told me he married me because we got along so great and he liked me so much as a friend and he knew I was the type of person he wanted to have kids with, but he?s never really been romantically in love with me or had sexual attraction to me. He?s been pretending this whole time.
He assures me I?m not unattractive, he just doesn?t see me that way and he?s tried so hard to have those feelings for me but he just doesn?t. I asked him what in the heck he thinks about when we have sex then. He admitted he thinks about other women, or fantasies he has.
He says he?s not unattracted to me, just not attracted. Aka I just do nothing for him.
We?ve been married for 7 years and have 2 kids. I feel so lost on where to go from here. Our life is good. We are really compatible when it comes to interests, values, parenting.
I just don?t see how I can remain married to somebody who I know doesn?t have romantic feelings for me or feel attracted to me, who I know is thinking about other people when we have sex, but it?s just not so simple to say I?m going to leave either. Of course, how could I consider leaving when he?s made me feel so bad about myself and like nobody will find me attractive.
Advice on how to even respond to this or try to move forward now that I know this?
Tldr: My husband confessed that he?s never been sexually attracted to me. I don?t even know how to respond.
Source.
I?ve been working up the courage to post this for a few days. It?s embarrassing, even though I know I don?t really have anything to be embarrassed by.
My husband confessed that he?s never been sexually attracted to me. I?m really devastated by this and just feel gross about myself.
He told me he married me because we got along so great and he liked me so much as a friend and he knew I was the type of person he wanted to have kids with, but he?s never really been romantically in love with me or had sexual attraction to me. He?s been pretending this whole time.
He assures me I?m not unattractive, he just doesn?t see me that way and he?s tried so hard to have those feelings for me but he just doesn?t. I asked him what in the heck he thinks about when we have sex then. He admitted he thinks about other women, or fantasies he has.
He says he?s not unattracted to me, just not attracted. Aka I just do nothing for him.
We?ve been married for 7 years and have 2 kids. I feel so lost on where to go from here. Our life is good. We are really compatible when it comes to interests, values, parenting.
I just don?t see how I can remain married to somebody who I know doesn?t have romantic feelings for me or feel attracted to me, who I know is thinking about other people when we have sex, but it?s just not so simple to say I?m going to leave either. Of course, how could I consider leaving when he?s made me feel so bad about myself and like nobody will find me attractive.
Advice on how to even respond to this or try to move forward now that I know this?
Tldr: My husband confessed that he?s never been sexually attracted to me. I don?t even know how to respond.
Source.
Hey beautiful I'm 34 turning 35 n if you're husband is not interested in you then I'll be there with you
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