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My(25F) boyfriend(26M) doesn?t want me to go to parties but doesn?t think the same rule should apply (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
My(25F) boyfriend(26M) doesn?t want me to go to parties but doesn?t think the same rule should apply to him.
As the title states, my(25F) boyfriend(26M) of 3 years feels like me not going to parties is a boundary of his that I should respect. In the past, during our relationship, I have unfortunately seen videos of him letting girls grind/twerk on him. He let these things happen even after I told him to stop and expressed why it crosses my boundaries. Therefore, when he said I shouldn?t go to parties, I felt like I had even more reason for him to reciprocate because of what he did in the past. However, he feels like he should be able to go to parties, especially if they are being organized and hosted by his friends. He wants to be able to be there and support them. I told him I also want to support my friends at their events, but he wouldn?t understand my side of the argument. I am not sure what to do because I feel like we are at an impasse, and he is being very stubborn. How should I handle this situation?
Edit: for anyone confused why we don?t go together, we are long distance.
TLDR: my(25F) boyfriend(26M) of 3 years doesn?t want me to go to parties but feels like it?s not issue for him to continue to go to parties.
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As the title states, my(25F) boyfriend(26M) of 3 years feels like me not going to parties is a boundary of his that I should respect. In the past, during our relationship, I have unfortunately seen videos of him letting girls grind/twerk on him. He let these things happen even after I told him to stop and expressed why it crosses my boundaries. Therefore, when he said I shouldn?t go to parties, I felt like I had even more reason for him to reciprocate because of what he did in the past. However, he feels like he should be able to go to parties, especially if they are being organized and hosted by his friends. He wants to be able to be there and support them. I told him I also want to support my friends at their events, but he wouldn?t understand my side of the argument. I am not sure what to do because I feel like we are at an impasse, and he is being very stubborn. How should I handle this situation?
Edit: for anyone confused why we don?t go together, we are long distance.
TLDR: my(25F) boyfriend(26M) of 3 years doesn?t want me to go to parties but feels like it?s not issue for him to continue to go to parties.
Source.
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