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BF of 2.5 years told me he?s never been physically attracted to me (by Sparky)
BF of 2.5 years told me he?s never been physically attracted to me
I (26/F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (25/F) for 2.5 years now and we?ve always had problems with sex being very infrequent and he started to tell me it was because i had gained a little weight around my waist and he?s finding it to be a turn off. I used to work out and eat healthy but i couldn?t lose that little bit of extra weight and i was giving myself an eating disorder because of it and it took a lot of toll on my mental health. Recently we had a huge fight because i felt it was unfair that he was putting me through this. He admitted that he has never been physically attracted to me and he picked on the weight because he couldn?t find a reason for not being attracted. He says he didn?t want to lose me and was just trying to avoid how he felt by shifting the blame on me. He says he type is basically his ex (tall, skinny, long legs - basically a model) and I?m the exact opposite (short and petite). He still says he wants to stay with me and will change but i don?t know. Can people really change that way and feel attracted to someone they never have been?
Tl;dr : BF has never found me physically attractive because I?m not his type and blamed my weight instead of being honest
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I (26/F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (25/F) for 2.5 years now and we?ve always had problems with sex being very infrequent and he started to tell me it was because i had gained a little weight around my waist and he?s finding it to be a turn off. I used to work out and eat healthy but i couldn?t lose that little bit of extra weight and i was giving myself an eating disorder because of it and it took a lot of toll on my mental health. Recently we had a huge fight because i felt it was unfair that he was putting me through this. He admitted that he has never been physically attracted to me and he picked on the weight because he couldn?t find a reason for not being attracted. He says he didn?t want to lose me and was just trying to avoid how he felt by shifting the blame on me. He says he type is basically his ex (tall, skinny, long legs - basically a model) and I?m the exact opposite (short and petite). He still says he wants to stay with me and will change but i don?t know. Can people really change that way and feel attracted to someone they never have been?
Tl;dr : BF has never found me physically attractive because I?m not his type and blamed my weight instead of being honest
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