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Boyfriend (20m) said he wanted to hurt me (18f) (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
Boyfriend (20m) said he wanted to hurt me (18f)
My (18f) boyfriend (20m) and i have been together for about 3 months, and a few nights ago we were cuddling as normal when he suddenly got on top of me, held my wrists down hard and stopped smiling. He just stared at me. I told him he was hurting and scaring me and he said ?that?s the point?.
He stopped 10 seconds later and said ?there?s a tiny part of me that wanted to hurt you?. I asked him if he loves me why would he want to hurt me and he said ?i don?t know i guess i?m just ****ed in the head?. He then apologised and made me promise to tell him if i?m ever uncomfortable and continued to say sorry.
I?m really confused and a bit upset. Is this a red flag or just a stupid thing he said. I havnt told anyone yet but i thought i?d ask for advice here.
edit: i?ve read all the comments, thanks for the advice
tl;dr : boyfriend held me down and scared me, and said he wanted to hurt me.
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My (18f) boyfriend (20m) and i have been together for about 3 months, and a few nights ago we were cuddling as normal when he suddenly got on top of me, held my wrists down hard and stopped smiling. He just stared at me. I told him he was hurting and scaring me and he said ?that?s the point?.
He stopped 10 seconds later and said ?there?s a tiny part of me that wanted to hurt you?. I asked him if he loves me why would he want to hurt me and he said ?i don?t know i guess i?m just ****ed in the head?. He then apologised and made me promise to tell him if i?m ever uncomfortable and continued to say sorry.
I?m really confused and a bit upset. Is this a red flag or just a stupid thing he said. I havnt told anyone yet but i thought i?d ask for advice here.
edit: i?ve read all the comments, thanks for the advice
tl;dr : boyfriend held me down and scared me, and said he wanted to hurt me.
Source.
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