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(UPDATE) I (25/f) ended up telling my friend (28/m) I liked him and it blew up in my face (by Sparky)
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(UPDATE) I (25/f) ended up telling my friend (28/m) I liked him and it blew up in my face
Original- https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...m_i_liked_him/
I ended up texting him yesterday that I was sorry if I wasn't more clear in my message, I didn't want to confuse him. I wrote "I apologize if I wasn't clear. I do have significant feelings for you and I believe if the circumstances were right, we could work and I'm willing to try that". He responded: "Oh, sorry I read it but then forgot I asked you and you texted me lol".
I waited a few hours to see if he would elaborate. He didn't, so I texted him how he felt about what I said. He said he never felt anything for me more than an acquaintance (HIS WORD), and couldn't believe I had the audacity to tell him my feelings, when "I KNEW he never felt that way". I didn't actually know this. He said he never made it seem like he liked me, never would. I felt like tone was really harsh so I called him. He was just as rude. I told him I think it's best we go our separate ways and don't remain "acquaintances". This ****** him off for some reason, he hangs up. He then texts that he wanted there to be an open door to chat as acquaintances in the future. I don't understand why. WHY?
That's all folks. I wish I was joking.
TL;DR Not interested in me
Source.
Original- https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...m_i_liked_him/
I ended up texting him yesterday that I was sorry if I wasn't more clear in my message, I didn't want to confuse him. I wrote "I apologize if I wasn't clear. I do have significant feelings for you and I believe if the circumstances were right, we could work and I'm willing to try that". He responded: "Oh, sorry I read it but then forgot I asked you and you texted me lol".
I waited a few hours to see if he would elaborate. He didn't, so I texted him how he felt about what I said. He said he never felt anything for me more than an acquaintance (HIS WORD), and couldn't believe I had the audacity to tell him my feelings, when "I KNEW he never felt that way". I didn't actually know this. He said he never made it seem like he liked me, never would. I felt like tone was really harsh so I called him. He was just as rude. I told him I think it's best we go our separate ways and don't remain "acquaintances". This ****** him off for some reason, he hangs up. He then texts that he wanted there to be an open door to chat as acquaintances in the future. I don't understand why. WHY?
That's all folks. I wish I was joking.
TL;DR Not interested in me
Source.
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