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UPDATE: I've [M26] decided to break up with my fianc? [F26] of 8 years. Need advice on how to procee (by Sparky)
UPDATE: I've [M26] decided to break up with my fianc? [F26] of 8 years. Need advice on how to proceed.
Link to original post https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/bylrpo/ive_m26_decided_to_break_up_with_my_fianc?_f26/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
I appreciate all of the advice on my last post. i didn't expect to get so much attention on it. But things went about as expected. She cried, I cried, she begged. It wasn't pretty. But for two weeks we've been broken up and she moved out today. The first few days were aweful. But afterwards we were able to talk to each other like normal people. And I helped her with everything I could. I let her take the room while I slept on the couch so she could have space and I tried to make myself as scarce as possible.
It's been a sad time and a sigh of relief. She also admitted to me that the reason she never tried to fix anything was because she didn't believe I would ever actually break up with her. She apologized and promised to work on herself. Which I appreciate. I told her there wasn't a chance we could get back together. We just aren't right. And she even said she is willing to try being friends after a while and I told her she is free to talk to me anytime but I won't bother her while she is getting over things.
I'm going to have to work things out properly with my financial status. But this is all for the best and I'm glad It happened. I only wish I could have done it earlier.
Thanks again for the advice. It helped a ton.
TL:DR I went through with the breakup and we are both doing fine now. Thank you for your help.
Source.
Link to original post https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/bylrpo/ive_m26_decided_to_break_up_with_my_fianc?_f26/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
I appreciate all of the advice on my last post. i didn't expect to get so much attention on it. But things went about as expected. She cried, I cried, she begged. It wasn't pretty. But for two weeks we've been broken up and she moved out today. The first few days were aweful. But afterwards we were able to talk to each other like normal people. And I helped her with everything I could. I let her take the room while I slept on the couch so she could have space and I tried to make myself as scarce as possible.
It's been a sad time and a sigh of relief. She also admitted to me that the reason she never tried to fix anything was because she didn't believe I would ever actually break up with her. She apologized and promised to work on herself. Which I appreciate. I told her there wasn't a chance we could get back together. We just aren't right. And she even said she is willing to try being friends after a while and I told her she is free to talk to me anytime but I won't bother her while she is getting over things.
I'm going to have to work things out properly with my financial status. But this is all for the best and I'm glad It happened. I only wish I could have done it earlier.
Thanks again for the advice. It helped a ton.
TL:DR I went through with the breakup and we are both doing fine now. Thank you for your help.
Source.
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