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[UPDATE] My [21F] boyfriend [21M] had an outburst and friends [21F/M] are calling it abuse. Is it? (by Sparky)
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[UPDATE] My [21F] boyfriend [21M] had an outburst and friends [21F/M] are calling it abuse. Is it?
TL;DR - Boyfriend continues to be in therapy, he has not had a single outburst since moving in, he is mentally well and we have a kitty!
Original Post:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...t_and_friends/
It's been almost a year I think since I made the original post, and things are honestly better than ever. My original post didn't get a lot of attention but I personally love seeing update posts so here's mine!
My boyfriend has continued therapy and is progressing well. As some people were concerned about me taking on a caretaker role, I am happy to say that he is very much in control of that, nor have I had to remind him about appointments, medication ect.
He has not had a single outburst since the time I made my post, and I have long since forgiven and forgotten. My mistake was confiding in friends about what happened, unfairly putting my boyfriend in a role where he appears abusive and violent. Any issues about our relationship are discussed and resolved between us, which is how it should be! We're both very very happy with where we are at.
We also decided to adopt a cat! Her name is Maggie and is the most sociable cat I've ever seen. She fits so well with us. Thank you to the people who took the time to reply to my original post, I appreciated it.
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TL;DR - Boyfriend continues to be in therapy, he has not had a single outburst since moving in, he is mentally well and we have a kitty!
Original Post:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...t_and_friends/
It's been almost a year I think since I made the original post, and things are honestly better than ever. My original post didn't get a lot of attention but I personally love seeing update posts so here's mine!
My boyfriend has continued therapy and is progressing well. As some people were concerned about me taking on a caretaker role, I am happy to say that he is very much in control of that, nor have I had to remind him about appointments, medication ect.
He has not had a single outburst since the time I made my post, and I have long since forgiven and forgotten. My mistake was confiding in friends about what happened, unfairly putting my boyfriend in a role where he appears abusive and violent. Any issues about our relationship are discussed and resolved between us, which is how it should be! We're both very very happy with where we are at.
We also decided to adopt a cat! Her name is Maggie and is the most sociable cat I've ever seen. She fits so well with us. Thank you to the people who took the time to reply to my original post, I appreciated it.
Source.
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