My [31F] husband [32M] and I barely kiss outside sex. I expressed I wanted to change that and he didn't respond like I expected. What now?

I noticed my husband and I barely kissed outside sex and foreplay. I don't expect us to be all over each other like we were going on a second date, but I did tell him that I wished we could kiss without it necessarily leading to sex. Sometimes I just want to kiss him you know? I am deeply in love with him and I like the idea of taking some time apart to kiss every now and then.
To him, though, kissing means sex or foreplay. I told him wanted us to just kiss sometimes and he said we could try it. But every time I ask him for a make out session he starts touching and groping me like he wants us to move towards sex. I mean, yeah, I like that too, I like that we start kissing and slowly move into sex, but sometimes I just want to kiss him for 5 minutes and keep doing whatever we were doing before.
A few days ago we were watching a movie and took a few minutes off to prepare coffee and snacks and while the water was heating I pulled him to kiss me and once again he started grunting and touching me and wanted us to have a quickie. And, that's not what I wanted in the moment and he was dissatisfied that I rejected sex that time.
What can I do about this? How can we agree on this?
tl;dr: Husband always escalates kissing to sex and sometimes I want to just kiss without the expectation of sex. How we come to an agreement on this?


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