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[UPDATE] I [25F] found out 2 years ago that my husband [34M] is cheating on me. How to end it and wh (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
23-Apr-18 2:22 pm
[UPDATE] I [25F] found out 2 years ago that my husband [34M] is cheating on me. How to end it and what to say?

Old OP:
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...y_husband_34m/
I wanted to make short update after a week has passed. Nothing exciting happened so save your popcorn.
After I made last post, I packed my necessities and took it at my friend's place. My husband came home on Sunday morning so I finally told him I knew about the cheating. He played dumb for an hour, but I was unfazed. When he realized I packed my bags, he said it was just short affair which meant nothing, one time thing without his better judgment. It was like some dark comedy because I didn't even know about affair he was talking about so I corrected him and after some more shouting, I left.
While on my way out, I saw my neighbour with whom I've never got along well. He said good for you. Later it hit me that he actually might be the person who sent me anonymous message about cheating long time ago.
I hired a lawyer. It is a good thing that we don't have kids or joined assets so things will be smooth after separation period is over. This weekend I moved to a new city and I will start a new job in early May. Later this week I might take short vacation to celebrate new beginning and experience some new adventures.
His friend contacted me to say my ex is not doing well. I said I'm sad to hear that, but that I'm not interested in any updates and my ex can contact my lawyer if there is some important information. Conversation was shortly over and I could hear my ex in the background saying to his friend that I'm such a bitch. That is true.
Tl;dr: I am getting a divorce. New start is going well too.
Edit: thanks for your support kind strangers! :))) I didn't expect it. I will come back and read your comments if though times arrive.


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