So I've been single for 8 years and sexless for over 10 years, it's having a huge effect on me mentally. How do you deal with this and stay confident/happy?

It'll be 9 years in February and 11 years in January. I feel so unwanted and generally miserable but I'm not sure what else I can do, pretty sure I've exhausted my options with the exception of flat out paying someone for their time.
Edit: to clarify, yes my friends, strangers and myself have considered and worked on everything we've collectively thought of and I am still stuck in a dry spell. I am asking for advice on dealing with these feelings, not on finding someone or trying to get laid.
Edit 2: Thank you to the people who read my question and offered some genuine advice for copeing, I really appreciate it. After being personally attacked a few times I've decided to not read or respond to this anymore except for to some already ongoing conversations.


Source.

Do something about it then....and quit worrying about your "feelings"....pretty sure you only want someone to pat you on the back and say "poor you", when what you REALLY need is a hard truth kick in the ass.
Suck it up.